EX gf has premature menopause?

hi there. i recently broke up mutuall with my ex gf.she has pof/pm.this made her irratinal,moody,insecure,hav no ual desire.This put strain on the relationship.when we broke up i thought we made a wrong decision so i asked to get back together but she was having none of it. so i asked for space to get over her and she got angry becasue i wasnt being a gud "friend".luckily we both went on holiday.funny thing is i still could get over her.all i did was trying to figure out how i could have been a better bf and deal with her issues.she still expects me to do things i did in the relationship but without the intimacy part. now when we were on holiday she was giving the "i dont care what you are up to attitude".this i affected how i felt (bad).now i know some might say iam being used but if u have gone through this or have had a similar situationthats going out with someone with a condition and you had to give up your all to make them happy and it didnt work , let me know how you dealt